BEST FRIENDS SHOULDN'T BE LOVERS
Best friends refer to people who
are always beside you no matter what happen in
your life. They are reliable, loyal, understanding, and make
you be yourself. Best friends start from ordinary friends, but time shows who the real best friends
are. But sometimes when boy and girl be best friends, they are trapped and fall in love to each other. It will be complicated when you have this
feeling. In my opinion, Best friends shouldn’t be lovers due to some reasons.
First, It gives effect for social life since it was started. Lovers wrapped by best friend’s label can’t be detected if they are lovers because people around them know they
always spend time together but when others start to figure it out that they are not just best friends, it will make gossip rag. Everybody will talk about them a long day and interrogate them, like how can it happened? How long is your relation? And many more. When you have a gang and two of them be lovers, it
feels strange because there is a love. Boy and girl that have special relation
tend to spend time together and make space with others. If there are many spaces, you will lose quality time with the others. You need quality time with friends on your busy routines. Courtship doesn’t work well
a long time, sometimes you get jealous, mad, and insecure.
When it happens, you’re in bad mood because of your boyfriend or girlfriend but everybody
gets the impact.
Second, We can’t be like the way we are. Best friends
always listen and understand. So, you can tell them anything, when you have
problems best friends are the first one that you search to share your problems. You don’t have secret and can show your feeling without hesitation. Best friends let you be yourself because friend zone is comfort zone. But when you be
lovers there are something changes without reason. Courtship is the period to a
couple get to know each other and decide if there will be other agreements. This is refer to informal and private matter between two people and
formal arrangement with family approval. So, you have to build your image that sometimes can’t make you be yourself. For example : When dating, you
have to wear outfit that looks interesting in front of your lovers somewhile it makes you don’t feel comfortable. Sometimes when be lovers,
you don’t feel comfortable as when you were friends. You will do anything that your lovers like and
follow his hobbies. When you are just best friends, you can wear snakers, t-shirts and worn-out jeans. You just be the way you are.
The last, many couple can’t be best friends anymore after they break up. You have to know that best friends always spend their time together, in campus, canteen,
hangout. You feel needed and comfortable. Sometimes you define that feeling as a love. So, when
they build courtship it only lasts temporarily. They are just happy in the beginning of the courtship and than
feel bored because it doesn’t show up their personalities, they just be the persons that their lovers
like. The bad thing is when the courtship doesn’t end up nicely. The friendship that begins with a good way has to be broken.
In short,
Best friends shouldn’t be sweetheart. It can break your friendship because something that has been broken difficult to be reunited again.
Sometimes when they be lovers, they can’t be themselves. Losing your personality is a bad thing, right? Best friends
are the precious thing, So you should keep it.
That's my
first essay :)) Made by struggle and hardwork. Thank you so much for Mr.
Novandi as my adviser and all members of Conversation Class - 6, room's 303.
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